Volunteer

Civility involves the art and act of caring for others.  Too many children grow up never learning what it means to selflessly serve others. Parents, eager to provide their child with every comfort and opportunity possible, overlook the tremendous value of service. A polite child is willing to serve others.

• Cultivate empathy in yourself and your children. Treat all people with dignity, respect and kindness; from the garbage collector to the President - from those who have little, to those who have much. Children who learn that a person’s worth is not based on what they have or the position they hold, but rather, on who they choose to be, are embracing the heart of civility.

• Service begins at home.  Encourage family members to participate in serving each other. Start each day by greeting all with a smile and hello. When getting a snack, ask others present if they would also like a snack. Family members should be treated with the same thoughtfulness as a special guest. 

• Giving is an act of civility. Everyone has something to give - a smile, a kind word, a helping hand, or a financial gift. There are endless opportunities to serve in your community. Do some research and find a place where you and your family can serve others and truly make a difference.