Mealtime - Raising Civil Children, Part VII

Mealtime 
 
Make family mealtime a priority. Children who eat regular meals together with their family do better in school, are less likely to use drugs, and are emotionally healthier.  Overloaded schedules make gathering around the dinner table each night a challenge for many families. If this describes your situation, consider what you can do. Maybe you could reserve Sunday for family dinners, or maybe breakfast would be a better option. Start where you can. Here are some tips for encouraging civility at mealtime.

  • Involve the entire family in preparing the meal.
  • Not a master chef? Learn a few simple recipes you can prepare together.
  • No time for food preparation? Consider purchasing prepared food and serving it on your own dishes.
  • Think nutrition. What is one thing you could do that would improve your family’s diet?
  • Set the table and sit down to eat.
  • Turn off the television, cell phones, computers, and other technical devices.
  • Practice table manners. Many families use my Etiquette Flash Cards as a fun and easy way to learn and discuss manners around the table.
  • Encourage positive table talk from all family members. 
  • Involve the entire family in the clean-up process.

The benefits from meals eaten together are well worth the effort.  Around the table manners and civility are learned and lifelong bonds are established.

 

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